MARRIAGE – A DIVINE INSTITUTION OF GOD

"And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him...And the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof; And the rib, which the Lord God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man. And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man. Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh" (Genesis 2:18, 21-24).

Marriage is a divine institution ordained by God to fulfill a divine purpose. Before the institution of marriage, God made necessary preparation in order for the man to enjoy the best.But today in various segments of the society, many get into this sacred institution unprepared and this has brought confusion into many lives. Ironically, many of the young people wishing to get into marriage do not even know the meaning, purpose and necessary preparations for the marriage.

Marriage is cleaving together of a man and a woman in harmony with God’s plan for their lives, having obtained their parents’ consent, thus becoming one interdependent being all the remaining days of their lives. Since preparation prevents poor performance, It is very important to prepare well for such a life long experience if the relationship is to be enjoyed.

The marriage ordinance is God’s institution that must be executed in God’s own way. The conjugal union at the Eden before the fall remains the abiding model for all believers to emulate. The rash of divorces across the world can never alter the standard that God ordained. God unalterable injunction for marriage remain one husband, one wife; no remarriage.

A true child of God will never opts for divorce in spite of problems. God’s grace should enable us to work on our marriages, and forgive all offences. “…With God all things are possible”(Mark 10:27).

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My Beloved, Don’t blame the Lord That His proven double-edged sword Appears too blunt for your sorrow And the ageless balm of Gilead Does nothing on your marital woe.

Remember, dearly beloved, remember When He spoke times without number “Tis not good for the man to be alone” Let him ask for help meet for him Let her ask for the crown of her own Well said! You declared.

But ere not I have increased in knowledge, And my barns are over-filled without measure. Anyway, none appear good for the Holy wedlock of my dream. For Peter was hasty and Paul a kill-joy Phillip was restless always willing to “go ye”, Mary takes risks – going to the tomb alone.

Having had some evils could she ever be free? All other women are no better: Thus you put off thoughts of marriage Until you pass’d the prime of age, And your prayers, now more of haste less of faith, Fall off the Lord of heaven’s ears, For he gives nothing – only by faith.

Yet the Lord is full of mercy And to entreat him is so easy Be sorry for your pride of life And the flinty hardness of your heart You’ll receive your Adam or Eve.

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Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up. Again, if two lie together, then they have heat: but how can one be warm alone?...For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife; and they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. (Ecclesiastes 4:9-12; Mark 10:7-9).

Finding a soulmate and cultivating a good relationship in a biblical way involves seeking God's guidance, following biblical principles, prayers, and prioritizing spiritual compatibility. Here are some Bible references that can help guide us in this pursuit:

1. Seek God's guidance: Proverbs 3:5-6 says, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight." It is important to seek God's guidance and trust in His plan for our lives, including our relationships.

2. Prioritize spiritual compatibility: 2 Corinthians 6:14 advises, "Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?" It is crucial to seek a partner who shares your faith and values, as spiritual compatibility is foundational for a strong and lasting relationship.

3. Pursue godly character: Proverbs 31:30 states, "Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised." Similarly, 1 Peter 3:3-4 encourages women to focus on inner beauty and a gentle spirit. These verses remind us to prioritize character and godliness over external appearances when seeking a soulmate.

4. Practice love and selflessness: 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 describes the characteristics of love: "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres." These verses guide us in cultivating a loving and selfless relationship, where we prioritize the well-being and happiness of our partner.

5. Communicate and resolve conflicts biblically: Ephesians 4:26-27 advises, "In your anger do not sin: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold." This verse encourages open and honest communication, resolving conflicts promptly, and not allowing bitterness or resentment to take root in our relationships.

6. Pray and plan together : Matthew 18:20 assures us, "For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them." Praying together as a couple strengthens the spiritual bond and invites God's presence into the relationship.

Remember, finding a soulmate and building a good relationship is a journey that requires patience, trust in God's timing, and a commitment to following biblical principles.