MESSAGE FOR CHRISTIAN SINGLES AND THE MARRIED
In the book of 1 Corinthians 7:1-9 (Please read), Paul the apostle's words to the Corinthians ignite a fire within my soul! He passionately declares that in that pivotal moment, it was absolutely splendid for Christians to embrace the gift of singleness. However, he also proclaims with fervor that marriage, oh glorious marriage, and the abundant joys it brings, are divinely ordained by the wisdom of the Almighty. While none shall dare to transgress the holy laws of God, this perfect decree grants us the freedom to serve Him in the manner that best suits our unique abilities and circumstances, a truth that often eludes the judgment of others who are ill-equipped to comprehend our individual journeys. Each and every one of us must fervently seek divine counsel, for it is through this sacred communion with God that we shall discover the path we are destined to tread. Oh, let our hearts be aflame with passion as we navigate the choices that lie before us, guided by the very hand of the Almighty!
To the Christian singles:
Dear brothers and sisters in Christ, as you navigate the journey of singleness, remember that God has a plan and purpose for your life. Take comfort in knowing that you are not alone, for the Lord is with you every step of the way. Seek His guidance and trust in His timing, for He knows what is best for you.
"But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you." - Matthew 6:33 Use this season of singleness to grow in your relationship with God, to discover your passions and talents, and to serve others selflessly. Trust that God is preparing you for a future filled with His blessings and a partner who will complement your faith and values.
"Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart." - Psalm 37:4
To the married couples:
Dear beloved couples, your marriage is a sacred union blessed by God. As you journey together, remember to seek His guidance and wisdom in all aspects of your relationship. Pray together, for prayer has the power to strengthen your bond and bring you closer to God and each other.
"Two are better than one because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up." - Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 In times of joy, seek God's presence to celebrate together. In times of challenges, seek His guidance to find solutions and grow stronger as a couple. Let love, forgiveness, and grace be the foundation of your marriage, reflecting the unconditional love that Christ has shown us.
"Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins." - 1 Peter 4:8 Remember that marriage is a lifelong commitment, and with God at the center, you can overcome any obstacle and experience the true joy and fulfillment that comes from a Christ-centered union.
"Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken." - Ecclesiastes 4:12 May God bless you abundantly in your journey as singles and as married couples, guiding you with His Word and filling your lives with His love and grace.
MARRIAGE IS A DIVINE INSTITUTION ESTABLISHED BY GOD
Marriage is often regarded as a divine institution ordained by God in many religious beliefs and traditions. It is seen as a sacred union between a man and a woman, symbolizing their commitment, love, and partnership. According to this perspective, God created marriage as a means for companionship, procreation, and the fulfillment of human needs. It is truly believed that God blesses and sanctifies the marital bond, providing guidance and support to the couple throughout their journey together. This divine ordination of marriage emphasizes the importance of faith, fidelity, and mutual respect within the relationship, and encourages couples to seek spiritual growth and unity in their union.Build yours on the solid rock today,it would be secured to experience true conjugal Bliss; O yes! It's possible with Christ Jesus.
There are several biblical proofs that demonstrate marriage as a divine institution established by God. Here are a few examples:
1. Genesis 2:18-24: In this passage, God creates Eve as a suitable partner for Adam, stating, "It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him." God then brings Eve to Adam, and Adam recognizes her as his wife, saying, "This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh." This account shows that God designed marriage as a union between a man and a woman, establishing the foundation for the institution.
2. Matthew 19:4-6: Jesus reaffirms the divine origin of marriage when he responds to a question about divorce. He quotes from Genesis 2:24, saying, "Haven't you read that at the beginning the Creator 'made them male and female,' and said, 'For this reason, a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh'? So, they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore, what God has joined together, let no one separate." Jesus emphasizes that marriage is a sacred union established by God, and it should not be easily dissolved.
3. Ephesians 5:31-32: The apostle Paul refers to the Genesis account of Adam and Eve, stating, "For this reason, a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh." He then adds, "This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church." Paul uses the analogy of marriage to illustrate the relationship between Christ and the church, highlighting the spiritual significance and divine intention behind the institution of marriage.
4. Hebrews 13:4: The author of Hebrews writes, "Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral." This verse emphasizes the importance of marriage and the need to honor it as a sacred covenant established by God.
These biblical proofs, among others, demonstrate that marriage is not merely a human invention or societal construct but a divine institution established by God for the well-being and flourishing of humanity.
THE WORLD AND THE SOCIETY HAVE NOTHING TO OFFER YOUR HOME, MARRIAGE REMAINS THE DIVINE INSTITUTION OF ALMIGHTY GOD
GOD! OUR HOME MAKER HAS PREPARED SOMETHING GREAT FOR YOU HERE..... READ ON!!!!
Text: "And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him....Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh"(Genesis2:18, 24 kjv); Read Ecclesiastes 4:9-12; Luke 14:18-32.
Marriage is a divine institution ordained by God to fulfill a divine purpose. Before the institution of marriage, God made necessary preparation for man in order to enjoy the very best and fulfill its purpose.
But in various segments of the society today , many get into this sacred institution unprepared and this has brought confusion into many lives and society ant large. Ironically,the young people wishing to get into marriage do not even know the meaning, purpose and necessary preparations before they embarked on it;however, it has leads to broken homes in our society today.
"Marriage is the relationship between man and woman in which the independence is equal the dependence mutual and the obligation reciprocal" __________ Louis K, Anspacher
" A good marriage is not a contract between two persons but a saced covenant between three. Too often Christ is never invited to the wedding and find no room in the home, Why? It is beacuse we have misrepresented Him and fogotten His joyful out-look on life? ____ Donald T. Kauffman
" Even if marriage are made in heaven, man has to be responsible for the maintenance" ---- Kroebler News
Dearly Beloved,
Our God, the Creator of all things, The founder and Perfect Architect have something to offer your home. He is the perfect HOME BUILDER, He want to build yours today solidly on foundation which no amount of demons in hell, storms of life can pull down. No way! The Devil and his cohorts are big liars; you are going to win the battle with God on your side.
No matter what situation your marriage is in-even if you are the verge of divorce – this information applied to you. If you are willing to give God a chance (who happen to be the architect and founder of marriage) you will be amazed to see your marriage transform to suit His divine purpose on earth.
Remember that –
(1) Human effort alone can not make the dreamer achieve his dreams. The master architect and engineer of a blessed home is Jesus. Excepts the Lord builds your home your output will not be worth you’re the input.
(2) Physical achievement, great wealth, comfortable furniture, bulky bank accounts are no guarantees for a blessed home? A blessed home is heirs whose source of peace, joy and fulfillment is Jesus.
(3) The best partners to tell your fears, hurts, worries, confusions, frustrations, hurdles, weaknesses, tears, and needs and who will listen to you patiently, attentively, with keen interest is your spouse?
(4) The bliss of a blessed home is your making? The umbrella which allows all sorts of atmospheric conditions; the intensity of what falls on it will be determined by how much strength is it weighs. The storms, winds, thunders and rains that fall into your umbrella (home) will be weighed by the strength of the umbrella. You need to make Jesus the umbrella of your home.
(5) A blessed home is one whose goals, aims, objectives, aspirations, desires and dreams are structured, planned & harmonized in the family’s single programme? It realization will be in duck succession.
It is not about,
(1) Giving in to everything your partner wants and demands.
(2) Begging or pleading for mere chances
(3) Forcing your partner to understand where he/she went wrong.
If you are in Christ Jesus today, then you are not alone. The Architect of marriage is on your side. And with Him, “all things are possible”. Victory is sure for you in Jesus name!
With the trend of divorcement in Christianity however, I became more worried as men are changing the ancient landmark of God at faster rate than so called unbeliever.
But I have seen miracles worked with troubled marriages that appeared to be absolutely beyond repair. Many couples have bounced back from a vast range of seemly irreversible problems such as, unresolved conflicts, extra marital affairs, lack of intimacy, excessive fighting, ineffective or not enough communication, not enough quality time for busy schedules, a suffocating partners children issues, trial separation, and many more complex & difficult situations.
Does any of this sound from liar! I strongly believe that with absolute trust in God, and following the Biblical principles & spiritual counseling coupled with prayer, virtually anyone can have the marriage of their dreams because God is on the throne.
By God’s grace, and through the inspiration of the Holy Spirit, i will instruct you how to resolve your marriage problems and gain the relationship of your dreams. Forget the theories philosophy and ideas of you have heard, biblical principles have the transforming power above them.
Don’t ever give up on your marriage. No matter what kind of problems you’re having, there’s alternative to divorce or separation. In fact, you could soon be experiencing the relationship you’ve only dream about! There is a word of solution from God to solve the problems of man on earth! “He sent His word and healed them, and delivered them form their destructions” (Psalm 107:20).
This marriage Manuals & Tools is Biblically inspiratory, and revelatory. It is tried, tested, and trusted. It is divine, distilled, direct, definite, distinct, down-to-heart and transforming! God has a healing balm to polish, to heals and to transform yours today, to suit His divine plan for your life (Jeremiah 8:22; 46:11). God is jealous over you.
I am praying for you as I expect your next testimony, God bless you!
2. AND FOR THE SINGLES ...THERE IS NO REVERSE GEAR IN MARRIAGE FOR GOD'S CHILDREN. GOD YOUR PERFECT MATCH MAKER !
CHOOSING A LIFE PARTNER IN A GODLY WAY TO HAVE A BLESSED TASTE OF HEAVEN ON EARTH IN YOUR UNION , O YES, IT’S POSSIBLE! GOD IS THE ONLY PERFECT MATCH MAKER. DATING COULD BE DANGEROUS FOR YOU!
It doesn’t pay to be a fool. Wisdom is safety. Wisdom is insurance. Fool rush into danger eyes wide-open and get crushed in the grips of death. The wise sight danger afar and duck into safety. To seeks divine knowledge and wisdom. It is to become a fool. Just shun knowledge, snort at wisdom, and you will become a typical fool in time. But wisdom is hard-earned. Hear God “if thou incline thine ear unto wisdom and apply thine heart unto understanding; if thou criest after knowledge, and liftest up thine heart unto understanding; if thou seekest her as silver, and searchest for her as for hid treasures. Then shall thou understand….” (Proverbs 1:3-5)
Wisdom carries a price of tag; the product of wisdom is wonder. Out of the womb of wisdom wonders are born. The word will make you wise unto salvation and holiness, knowledge and wisdom beckon you every season.. Hear both, see them, seize them. And use them in your selection for life’s partner. It takes man’s hand to build a house, but to build a home, we need God’s assistance. God remains our Perfect Match-Maker. Discover the secret today!
Dearly beloved,
It has been said that three most important events in a person’s life are his/her birth, marriage, and death. Of these, he has no control over the first and the third. With respect to the second, he may, if he will, exercise, considerable control. But, alas, nature is often allowed to take its course with little thought of consequences.
It is extremely dangerous for a born again Christian to plan marriage without God. Proverbs 3:5 says “Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not with thy own understanding” and Psalm 37:4-5 says “Delight thyself also in the Lord; and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart. Commit thy way unto the Lord; trust also in Him; and he shall bring it to pass”.
Remember that, not all men are ideal husband; and not all women are ideal wife.
Many , many Christians are bound in miserable, unhappy marriages because they disobeyed a plain command of the Lord. In choosing a life partner, they give room to the flesh to rule them instead of allowing God’s Spirit to lead them, “…..Walk in the Spirit, ye shall not fulfill the lust of the flesh. If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit” (Galatians 5:16, 25).
DATING COULD BE DANGEROUS! Many homes has collapsed as a result.Most young spend considerable time daydreaming about getting married some day and having a happy home. But the road that leads to happy home has many pitfalls along the ways. Many got married through physical intimacy and infatuation (which based on romantic feelings) that stirs up sexual passions which “blind” those involved. Satan offer short-term thrills that leaves with long-term regrets and sorrow. God asks for our restrain, and when we obey Him, He gives us long-term happiness with no regrets.
Don’t be anxious, don’t worry, trust God, His way is beautiful; His will for selecting life partner is perfect (Not through lustful dating like unbeliever).
To avoid the wrong selection, I am providing you with Biblical tools & Manuals you NEED to guide you through to know whom to marry as Christian in a Biblical way, o YES! God do speaks to His Children today! He will speak to you on who to marry, Your marriage is your LIFE. It reveals –
Text: "And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him....Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh"(Genesis2:18, 24 kjv); Read Ecclesiastes 4:9-12; Luke 14:18-32.
Marriage is a divine institution ordained by God to fulfill a divine purpose. Before the institution of marriage, God made necessary preparation for man in order to enjoy the very best and fulfill its purpose.
But in various segments of the society today , many get into this sacred institution unprepared and this has brought confusion into many lives and society ant large. Ironically,the young people wishing to get into marriage do not even know the meaning, purpose and necessary preparations before they embarked on it;however, it has leads to broken homes in our society today.
Here are Some Quotable Quotes on MARRIAGE....
"Marriage is about the only institution for which no spare parts are provided. You replace worn out or defective parts of an engine with spare parts, but there is no such things in marriage. It has no reverse gear either" ---- Anonymous
"Marriage is about the only institution for which no spare parts are provided. You replace worn out or defective parts of an engine with spare parts, but there is no such things in marriage. It has no reverse gear either" ---- Anonymous
Marriage is the most solemn, sacred and serious union into which people enter. It is sacred because it is established by God Himself. Serious because it bind s the man and woman together in a relationship so close and intimate that their entire future will be profoundly influenced by it, and until death do them parting, God hate divorce.The saced and sanctity of marriage is expressed in the marriage vows itself"
"Marriage is the relationship between man and woman in which the independence is equal the dependence mutual and the obligation reciprocal" __________ Louis K, Anspacher
" A good marriage is not a contract between two persons but a saced covenant between three. Too often Christ is never invited to the wedding and find no room in the home, Why? It is beacuse we have misrepresented Him and fogotten His joyful out-look on life? ____ Donald T. Kauffman
" Even if marriage are made in heaven, man has to be responsible for the maintenance" ---- Kroebler News
1. FOR THE MARRIED COUPLE ...GOD YOUR PERFECT HOMEBUILDER
YOUR HOME CAN RECEIVE A DIVINE TOUCH TO GIVE YOU A TASTE OF HEAVEN ON EARTH, O YES, IT’S POSSIBLE!
It doesn’t pay to be a fool. Wisdom is safety. Wisdom is insurance. Fool rush into danger eyes wide-open and get crushed in the grips of death. The wise sight danger afar and duck into safety. To seeks divine knowledge and wisdom. It is to become a fool. Just shun knowledge, snort at wisdom, and you will become a typical fool in time. But wisdom is hard-earned. Hear God “if thou incline thine ear unto wisdom and apply thine heart unto understanding; if thou criest after knowledge, and liftest up thine heart unto understanding; if thou seekest her as silver, and searchest for her as for hid treasures. Then shall thou understand….” (Proverbs 1:3-5)
Wisdom carries a price of tag; the product of wisdom is wonder. Out of the womb of wisdom wonders are born. The word will make you wise unto salvation and holiness, knowledge and wisdom beckon you every season.. Hear both, see them, seize them. And use them in your Marriage. You can build your house with your hands, but to build home, you need God’s help, who is the Architect and the founder of marriage.
I am providing you with Biblical Tools & Manuals you NEED at this time to transform your marriage; to keep fits on earth and prepare you for the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ. The Manuals and Tools reveals:-
It doesn’t pay to be a fool. Wisdom is safety. Wisdom is insurance. Fool rush into danger eyes wide-open and get crushed in the grips of death. The wise sight danger afar and duck into safety. To seeks divine knowledge and wisdom. It is to become a fool. Just shun knowledge, snort at wisdom, and you will become a typical fool in time. But wisdom is hard-earned. Hear God “if thou incline thine ear unto wisdom and apply thine heart unto understanding; if thou criest after knowledge, and liftest up thine heart unto understanding; if thou seekest her as silver, and searchest for her as for hid treasures. Then shall thou understand….” (Proverbs 1:3-5)
Wisdom carries a price of tag; the product of wisdom is wonder. Out of the womb of wisdom wonders are born. The word will make you wise unto salvation and holiness, knowledge and wisdom beckon you every season.. Hear both, see them, seize them. And use them in your Marriage. You can build your house with your hands, but to build home, you need God’s help, who is the Architect and the founder of marriage.
I am providing you with Biblical Tools & Manuals you NEED at this time to transform your marriage; to keep fits on earth and prepare you for the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ. The Manuals and Tools reveals:-
* Experiencing genuine Salvation of God & Walking in Holiness of life with Christ
* Partnership & Planning with God
* The weapons of our Warfare
* Secret of Happy Home
* For Newly wedded: A chalenges of the Marital Life & A radiant Palace for the King.
* Pillars and Caterpillars of Godly Family
* Seventy times seven Life -styles in the Family
* Communication Breakdown: Problems, Panacea and Prospect.
* Discover to Recover
* Copying with the Husband or Wife who strays
* Infidelity: Causes, Consequences and Cures.
* Purity, prayer and Love: Foundation of a Happy Home.
* Goal setting and Harmonisation: Process and Principles.
* Mating and the Christian Life
* Planned Parenthood: The Christian Options
* Child Training in Christian Family
* Biblical principles on Child Trainning and Discipline
* Guiding Adolescents through a Misguided World
* Salvaging & Moulding wayward Children in the Families
* Biding the strongman to set the Family free
* Divine Promises for the Barren:Sing o Barren for you shall
breakforth!
* Delay not Denial
* Faith and Faithfulness in service while waiting and many more ...
Dearly Beloved,
Our God, the Creator of all things, The founder and Perfect Architect have something to offer your home. He is the perfect HOME BUILDER, He want to build yours today solidly on foundation which no amount of demons in hell, storms of life can pull down. No way! The Devil and his cohorts are big liars; you are going to win the battle with God on your side.
No matter what situation your marriage is in-even if you are the verge of divorce – this information applied to you. If you are willing to give God a chance (who happen to be the architect and founder of marriage) you will be amazed to see your marriage transform to suit His divine purpose on earth.
Remember that –
(1) Human effort alone can not make the dreamer achieve his dreams. The master architect and engineer of a blessed home is Jesus. Excepts the Lord builds your home your output will not be worth you’re the input.
(2) Physical achievement, great wealth, comfortable furniture, bulky bank accounts are no guarantees for a blessed home? A blessed home is heirs whose source of peace, joy and fulfillment is Jesus.
(3) The best partners to tell your fears, hurts, worries, confusions, frustrations, hurdles, weaknesses, tears, and needs and who will listen to you patiently, attentively, with keen interest is your spouse?
(4) The bliss of a blessed home is your making? The umbrella which allows all sorts of atmospheric conditions; the intensity of what falls on it will be determined by how much strength is it weighs. The storms, winds, thunders and rains that fall into your umbrella (home) will be weighed by the strength of the umbrella. You need to make Jesus the umbrella of your home.
(5) A blessed home is one whose goals, aims, objectives, aspirations, desires and dreams are structured, planned & harmonized in the family’s single programme? It realization will be in duck succession.
It is not about,
(1) Giving in to everything your partner wants and demands.
(2) Begging or pleading for mere chances
(3) Forcing your partner to understand where he/she went wrong.
If you are in Christ Jesus today, then you are not alone. The Architect of marriage is on your side. And with Him, “all things are possible”. Victory is sure for you in Jesus name!
With the trend of divorcement in Christianity however, I became more worried as men are changing the ancient landmark of God at faster rate than so called unbeliever.
But I have seen miracles worked with troubled marriages that appeared to be absolutely beyond repair. Many couples have bounced back from a vast range of seemly irreversible problems such as, unresolved conflicts, extra marital affairs, lack of intimacy, excessive fighting, ineffective or not enough communication, not enough quality time for busy schedules, a suffocating partners children issues, trial separation, and many more complex & difficult situations.
Does any of this sound from liar! I strongly believe that with absolute trust in God, and following the Biblical principles & spiritual counseling coupled with prayer, virtually anyone can have the marriage of their dreams because God is on the throne.
By God’s grace, and through the inspiration of the Holy Spirit, i will instruct you how to resolve your marriage problems and gain the relationship of your dreams. Forget the theories philosophy and ideas of you have heard, biblical principles have the transforming power above them.
Don’t ever give up on your marriage. No matter what kind of problems you’re having, there’s alternative to divorce or separation. In fact, you could soon be experiencing the relationship you’ve only dream about! There is a word of solution from God to solve the problems of man on earth! “He sent His word and healed them, and delivered them form their destructions” (Psalm 107:20).
This marriage Manuals & Tools is Biblically inspiratory, and revelatory. It is tried, tested, and trusted. It is divine, distilled, direct, definite, distinct, down-to-heart and transforming! God has a healing balm to polish, to heals and to transform yours today, to suit His divine plan for your life (Jeremiah 8:22; 46:11). God is jealous over you.
I am praying for you as I expect your next testimony, God bless you!
COUPLES SHOULD PLEASE READ THE FOLLOWING MESSAGE:
GOD’S PLAN FOR THE FAMILY
Matthew 19:1-12
Husband and wife are the two human pillars upon which the home is built. Though the husband and the wife stand co-equal in the sight of God, being “heirs together of the grace of life” (1Peter 3:7), the man is ordained by God to be the head of the home. The husband is called to submit to God, the wife is to the husband while the children are called to obey their parents.
Plan for the husband: The husband plan not only for himself but also for the physical, spiritual, and temporal needs of the whole family, He teaches, guide, direct, leads, controls, prays and provides for the wife and the family. The Christian husband loves his wife as Christ loves the church. He loves her at all time, totally, sacrificially, not because of what he can get from the wife but because it is God’s ordained order for him to love sacrificially. He never beats or abuses his wife.
Plan for the wife: God expect the wife to recognize and joyfully accept the God ordained headship of the husband. She should be obedient, humble, meek, quiet, diligent and dependable. Both husband and wife should each be an example of godliness, faithfulness, holiness, responsibility, obedience, honesty, contentment, diligence and love to their children.
Provision for the family: God instituted marriage and adequately provided for happiness in the family. He expects the man to leave (though not to abandon) his father and mother and cleave to his wife.
Problems in the family and the ways out: Divorce, remarriage and polygamy are not the will of God. Therefore, problems such as poverty, childlessness, relationship with the in-laws and relatives must not cause disharmony in the family. In fact, God expects the husband to defend the right of the wife at all times, among the children, in-laws, and relatives. Criticism of each other, lack of forgiveness, impatience, strife, malice, malice, nagging and bitterness are not to be allowed in the family. Indeed, God expects the husband and wife to live sanctified life in order to preserve the oneness, unity, harmony, and love in the family. To this end, they are to encourage one another in their Christian journey (Proverb 27:17) and train up their children in the way of the Lord (Proverb22:6).
Matthew 19:1-12
Husband and wife are the two human pillars upon which the home is built. Though the husband and the wife stand co-equal in the sight of God, being “heirs together of the grace of life” (1Peter 3:7), the man is ordained by God to be the head of the home. The husband is called to submit to God, the wife is to the husband while the children are called to obey their parents.
Plan for the husband: The husband plan not only for himself but also for the physical, spiritual, and temporal needs of the whole family, He teaches, guide, direct, leads, controls, prays and provides for the wife and the family. The Christian husband loves his wife as Christ loves the church. He loves her at all time, totally, sacrificially, not because of what he can get from the wife but because it is God’s ordained order for him to love sacrificially. He never beats or abuses his wife.
Plan for the wife: God expect the wife to recognize and joyfully accept the God ordained headship of the husband. She should be obedient, humble, meek, quiet, diligent and dependable. Both husband and wife should each be an example of godliness, faithfulness, holiness, responsibility, obedience, honesty, contentment, diligence and love to their children.
Provision for the family: God instituted marriage and adequately provided for happiness in the family. He expects the man to leave (though not to abandon) his father and mother and cleave to his wife.
Problems in the family and the ways out: Divorce, remarriage and polygamy are not the will of God. Therefore, problems such as poverty, childlessness, relationship with the in-laws and relatives must not cause disharmony in the family. In fact, God expects the husband to defend the right of the wife at all times, among the children, in-laws, and relatives. Criticism of each other, lack of forgiveness, impatience, strife, malice, malice, nagging and bitterness are not to be allowed in the family. Indeed, God expects the husband and wife to live sanctified life in order to preserve the oneness, unity, harmony, and love in the family. To this end, they are to encourage one another in their Christian journey (Proverb 27:17) and train up their children in the way of the Lord (Proverb22:6).
2. AND FOR THE SINGLES ...THERE IS NO REVERSE GEAR IN MARRIAGE FOR GOD'S CHILDREN. GOD YOUR PERFECT MATCH MAKER !
CHOOSING A LIFE PARTNER IN A GODLY WAY TO HAVE A BLESSED TASTE OF HEAVEN ON EARTH IN YOUR UNION , O YES, IT’S POSSIBLE! GOD IS THE ONLY PERFECT MATCH MAKER. DATING COULD BE DANGEROUS FOR YOU!
It doesn’t pay to be a fool. Wisdom is safety. Wisdom is insurance. Fool rush into danger eyes wide-open and get crushed in the grips of death. The wise sight danger afar and duck into safety. To seeks divine knowledge and wisdom. It is to become a fool. Just shun knowledge, snort at wisdom, and you will become a typical fool in time. But wisdom is hard-earned. Hear God “if thou incline thine ear unto wisdom and apply thine heart unto understanding; if thou criest after knowledge, and liftest up thine heart unto understanding; if thou seekest her as silver, and searchest for her as for hid treasures. Then shall thou understand….” (Proverbs 1:3-5)
Wisdom carries a price of tag; the product of wisdom is wonder. Out of the womb of wisdom wonders are born. The word will make you wise unto salvation and holiness, knowledge and wisdom beckon you every season.. Hear both, see them, seize them. And use them in your selection for life’s partner. It takes man’s hand to build a house, but to build a home, we need God’s assistance. God remains our Perfect Match-Maker. Discover the secret today!
Dearly beloved,
It has been said that three most important events in a person’s life are his/her birth, marriage, and death. Of these, he has no control over the first and the third. With respect to the second, he may, if he will, exercise, considerable control. But, alas, nature is often allowed to take its course with little thought of consequences.
It is extremely dangerous for a born again Christian to plan marriage without God. Proverbs 3:5 says “Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not with thy own understanding” and Psalm 37:4-5 says “Delight thyself also in the Lord; and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart. Commit thy way unto the Lord; trust also in Him; and he shall bring it to pass”.
Remember that, not all men are ideal husband; and not all women are ideal wife.
Many , many Christians are bound in miserable, unhappy marriages because they disobeyed a plain command of the Lord. In choosing a life partner, they give room to the flesh to rule them instead of allowing God’s Spirit to lead them, “…..Walk in the Spirit, ye shall not fulfill the lust of the flesh. If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit” (Galatians 5:16, 25).
DATING COULD BE DANGEROUS! Many homes has collapsed as a result.Most young spend considerable time daydreaming about getting married some day and having a happy home. But the road that leads to happy home has many pitfalls along the ways. Many got married through physical intimacy and infatuation (which based on romantic feelings) that stirs up sexual passions which “blind” those involved. Satan offer short-term thrills that leaves with long-term regrets and sorrow. God asks for our restrain, and when we obey Him, He gives us long-term happiness with no regrets.
Don’t be anxious, don’t worry, trust God, His way is beautiful; His will for selecting life partner is perfect (Not through lustful dating like unbeliever).
To avoid the wrong selection, I am providing you with Biblical tools & Manuals you NEED to guide you through to know whom to marry as Christian in a Biblical way, o YES! God do speaks to His Children today! He will speak to you on who to marry, Your marriage is your LIFE. It reveals –
(1) Experiencing genuine Salvation of God & Walking in Holiness of Life with Christ
(2) Partnership & Planning with God
(3) The weapons of our Warfare
(4) The wages of immorality & dividends of chastity.
(5) Praying to know God’s will in Marriage.
(6) Bridging the gap for God’s best in marriage.
(7) Bible stand-point on inter-tribal and interdenominational union.
(8) Breaking the chain of unequal yoke & worldliness in marriage.
(9) Blue print for avoiding confusion in partner selection
(10) Basis for spiritual & physical tests before marriage
(11) Biblical principles for glorifying and challenging courtship.
(12) Building a happy, Godly home and many more.
For Married Couple & the Singles: Order for these Marriage Manuals & Tools, e-mail me or write:
(4) The wages of immorality & dividends of chastity.
(5) Praying to know God’s will in Marriage.
(6) Bridging the gap for God’s best in marriage.
(7) Bible stand-point on inter-tribal and interdenominational union.
(8) Breaking the chain of unequal yoke & worldliness in marriage.
(9) Blue print for avoiding confusion in partner selection
(10) Basis for spiritual & physical tests before marriage
(11) Biblical principles for glorifying and challenging courtship.
(12) Building a happy, Godly home and many more.
For Married Couple & the Singles: Order for these Marriage Manuals & Tools, e-mail me or write:
"Buy the truth and sell it not, also wisdom, and instruction, and understanding” – (Proverbs 23:23).
NOTE:
BELIVERS IN CHRIST PLEASE FOR CHRIST'S SAKE AND FOR HEAVEN'S SAKE, REMOVE NOT THE ANCIENT LANDMARK OF GOD IN MARRIAGE.
YOUR MARRIAGE ON EARTH WILL DETERMINES WHERE YOU WILL SPEND YOUR ETERNITY - EITHER IN HEAVEN WITH GOD AS YOU OBEY HIM ON EARTH OR IN HELL AS YOU CHOOSE YOUR OWN WAY OUTSIDE GOD'S BIBLICAL STANDARD! MARRIAGE IS A SACRED INSTITUTION ESTABLISHED BY GOD HIMSELF, YOU WILL BE JUDGE ACCORDINGLY BY GOD'S HOLY WORD.
SINGLES SHOULD PLEASE READ THE MESSAGE BELOW:
GOD – OUR PERFECT MATCHMAKER
Genesis 2:18, 21-24; 1:27-28; Matthew 19:4-6; 1Corinthians 11:8-12
“And the Lord said, it is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him” (Genesis 2:18).
This Bible verse reveals to us the foundation of the institution of marriage. The Almighty God, being the Omniscient analyzed the totality of the life of man – his assignment, his spiritual, mental, and emotional make up, his predispositions etc. and concluded that “it is not good that man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him” He know that man would never be satisfied and fulfilled if left alone; and he knew that even man was intelligent there was no way he could provide a suitable helpmeet for himself. For this reason, “the Lord caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam …”(Genesis 2:20-24). God took the initiative to institute marriage without man’s knowledge. God decided to make a suitable companion for the man without any conscious contribution from the man. Our God is compassionate; His thought for us is how to make life better and more meaningful for us. “For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the Lord, thoughts of peace not of evil, to give you an expected end”(Jeremiah 29:11). Even while we’re ignorant and unconcerned about certain things in our lives, God is mindful of everything that pertains to us and He is always making arrangements and taking steps that will be of maximum benefits to us.
Right from the beginning of the institution, there was divine-human relationship. That very partnership is still of utmost importance today to anyone who want to have a successful and purposeful marital life. God must be directly involved in every stage of the marriage process. Otherwise, the marriage will not be what God designed marriage to be.
Written by Akinbowale Adewumi
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“Except the Lord build the house, they labour in vain that build it. …” (Psalm 127:1)
Genesis 2:18, 21-24; 1:27-28; Matthew 19:4-6; 1Corinthians 11:8-12
“And the Lord said, it is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him” (Genesis 2:18).
This Bible verse reveals to us the foundation of the institution of marriage. The Almighty God, being the Omniscient analyzed the totality of the life of man – his assignment, his spiritual, mental, and emotional make up, his predispositions etc. and concluded that “it is not good that man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him” He know that man would never be satisfied and fulfilled if left alone; and he knew that even man was intelligent there was no way he could provide a suitable helpmeet for himself. For this reason, “the Lord caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam …”(Genesis 2:20-24). God took the initiative to institute marriage without man’s knowledge. God decided to make a suitable companion for the man without any conscious contribution from the man. Our God is compassionate; His thought for us is how to make life better and more meaningful for us. “For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the Lord, thoughts of peace not of evil, to give you an expected end”(Jeremiah 29:11). Even while we’re ignorant and unconcerned about certain things in our lives, God is mindful of everything that pertains to us and He is always making arrangements and taking steps that will be of maximum benefits to us.
Right from the beginning of the institution, there was divine-human relationship. That very partnership is still of utmost importance today to anyone who want to have a successful and purposeful marital life. God must be directly involved in every stage of the marriage process. Otherwise, the marriage will not be what God designed marriage to be.
Written by Akinbowale Adewumi
Email us
“Except the Lord build the house, they labour in vain that build it. …” (Psalm 127:1)
For the married couple & the singles; Orders for these marriage manuals & tools,contact me through an e-mail link above:
"BUY THE TRUTH AND SELL IT NOT, ALSO WISDOM AND INSTRUCTION, AND UNDERSTANDING" - (PROVERBS 23:31).
J E S U S I S L L O R D !
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